my son and my life now how it is different

Category: Parent Talk

Post 1 by little foot (Zone BBS is my Life) on Thursday, 16-Oct-2014 17:40:55

my son is 2 years old now and he is getting big. the last time that I saw him was on July something. When posting on here please do not be negative please.

Post 2 by LeoGuardian (You mean there is something outside of this room with my computer in it?) on Friday, 17-Oct-2014 11:06:50

Is he a missing person, or living with the father, or what? Not being negative, just confused.
I'm sorry for your loss if he went missing and you all are searching, and our best to you and yours. Just keep on law enforcement asking about what they know now, and such.

Post 3 by little foot (Zone BBS is my Life) on Tuesday, 09-Dec-2014 3:12:10

My son is adopedid fimily here in the phoenix arizona.
i get to see him 3 or 4 times a year.
talk soon... 😒

Post 4 by forereel (Just posting.) on Tuesday, 09-Dec-2014 19:49:38

But, you'd have to say why that is.
You also have a daughter. Not being negative, and you know me well, so you know I'm not that way, but, you have reasons why this is happening.
I guess try to fix the reasons, so that you regain more time with him.

Post 5 by forereel (Just posting.) on Tuesday, 09-Dec-2014 19:52:15

Also, you opened this one love, so you'll get asked questions you'd probably not want to hear, or even answer.
This is a really strong post for a public board, unless you are prepaired to deal with negative, and maybe some positive.

Post 6 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Wednesday, 10-Dec-2014 23:58:37

Wayne and leo are right; I hope you're prepared for whatever comes, cause this is a public forum where people are free to say whatever is on their mind.

Post 7 by little foot (Zone BBS is my Life) on Thursday, 15-Jan-2015 17:44:28

I do not mind being ttto see my son 4 times. I kii do not
waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaanttt too get to clllose to
myy son or things like thatt.. it desnt botthhher me at all that iiii get tto seee hhiiim
miSsPrInCesS lil bit.

as far as my daughter i am not gona anser anquestiosss about thee thhat quuestin
caause i do not want to at this time. bbuuut thhat is whaaat i have to say abouttt tthat.
you do not lllike it to me it does not maattter.

Post 8 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Thursday, 15-Jan-2015 21:43:36

if you'd actually like to be understood, little foot, try proofreading your typing, or don't type so fast, if you're a fast typer. that was all over the place.

Post 9 by AgateRain (Believe it or not, everything on me and about me is real!) on Friday, 16-Jan-2015 2:04:57

what the world?

Post 10 by LeoGuardian (You mean there is something outside of this room with my computer in it?) on Friday, 16-Jan-2015 9:57:17

Maybe she's on a Bluetooth keyboard. I've had some really embarrassing results with an older 2010 model one of those, if the battery starts to die. But yes a proofread will fix that situation though.

Post 11 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Saturday, 17-Jan-2015 21:14:31

excuses excuses. the point still remains: pay attention to your writing, whether you're on a Bluetooth keyboard, or a PC.

Post 12 by The Roman Battle Mask (Making great use of my Employer's time.) on Tuesday, 20-Jan-2015 16:28:30

I'm going with possible cognitive issues which is why I'm not making any snarky comments.

Post 13 by Remy (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Tuesday, 20-Jan-2015 19:03:14

My question is how is your life different now that you have a little one? That appeared to be the purpose of the post judging by the topic.

Post 14 by forereel (Just posting.) on Tuesday, 20-Jan-2015 20:12:05

Actually, she's lost her little one.

Post 15 by Smiling Sunshine (I've now got the bronze prolific poster award! now going for the silver award!) on Tuesday, 20-Jan-2015 22:19:07

I remember the OP's original post. She voluntarily placed her son with another family for adoption so he would hopefully have a better life. If I'm remembering correctly, she already has one child and knew that she wouldn't be able to adequately take care of another. From what I'm gathering, it's an open adoption and she sees him a few times per year.
I can't imagine how difficult that must be.
.

Post 16 by Damia (I'm oppinionated deal with it.) on Thursday, 19-Mar-2015 19:10:50

i don't think she's looking for more time with him if he's adopted. Adopted generally means that it's a complete legal process. That's seperate from fostering. Reading the way she writes about it it's tempting to be snarky, but like Jared i think there's more there.

Post 17 by Grand_Admiral_Thrawn (Veteran Zoner) on Saturday, 28-Mar-2015 15:34:19

I agree with chelslicious , though Roman has a point too so I won't comment.

Post 18 by little foot (Zone BBS is my Life) on Monday, 30-Mar-2015 10:14:28

well i am glad that i get to see him.
and yes itt was legally done.

Post 19 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Monday, 30-Mar-2015 11:07:25

and you need to share this with us...why?

Post 20 by Damia (I'm oppinionated deal with it.) on Monday, 30-Mar-2015 12:22:34

It's nice they did an open adoption. I'm sorry that things have to be that way. I personally would be heart broken if my daughter or son was living with someone else. I understand everyone has different ideas and circumstances though...

Post 21 by little foot (Zone BBS is my Life) on Thursday, 02-Apr-2015 20:28:56

yes it was a hard choice tomake